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  • Đăng bởi Quyen on Tháng Mười 3, 2024 at 9:27 sáng

    Hi there,

    I’d like to ask for advice on a challenge I’m currently facing.

    I’m an English teacher at an international school, teaching a Grade 1 class with 10 students. All of them behave normally except for one girl. She’s really fluent in English (her dad is foreign, and her mom is Vietnamese), but she doesn’t know much Vietnamese. She’s transferred schools multiple times before joining mine. I’m not sure why her parents chose a bilingual school.

    In class, she generally behaves well, but when things don’t go her way, she becomes very disruptive, distracting other students. She sometimes hides under the desk and refuses to talk. She gets extremely angry, and I’ve seen her spit on a window and yell while running around the building in the afternoon. This behavior is disruptive and makes it difficult for everyone.

    This is a new situation for me, and I’m unsure how to approach it.

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  • rubipsy
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    Tháng Mười 4, 2024 at 2:41 chiều

    It sounds like you’re dealing with a complex situation, and it’s understandable that this student’s behavior poses a challenge in the classroom. There are several factors at play, such as her language background, potential difficulties adjusting due to frequent school changes, and how she copes with frustration.

    Here are some steps you could consider to support both her and the rest of the class:

    1. Build a sense of security and consistency: Since she’s transferred schools multiple times, she may feel unstable or anxious about her surroundings. Establishing clear routines and rules can help her feel more secure. Positive reinforcement for following rules and behaving appropriately may also encourage her to engage more positively.

    2. Develop a calm-down strategy: When she starts to show signs of frustration or anger, provide her with options to calm down in a structured, non-punitive way. Create a “calm corner” in the classroom where she can go to decompress, offering sensory items like a stress ball or calming visuals to help her regulate her emotions. Explain that this space is for her to use when she feels overwhelmed.

    3. Use clear communication: Since she’s more proficient in English, make sure you communicate your expectations clearly in that language. Visual cues can also help. Simple visuals for classroom rules or schedules can reduce frustration if she’s feeling confused.

    4. Help her identify and express emotions: She may struggle to communicate her feelings constructively, which could be contributing to her outbursts. You can incorporate activities that teach emotional literacy, helping her identify and express emotions like anger, frustration, or sadness. This can also benefit the whole class.

    5. Work with her parents: Her parents may have insights into her behavior that could help you understand her better. You could meet with them to discuss the challenges you’re seeing and inquire about her past experiences at other schools, any behavioral patterns they’ve noticed, and how they manage her behavior at home. Collaboration can help create a more cohesive approach.

    6. Consider involving a counselor: If the behavior persists or escalates, it might be useful to involve the school counselor or psychologist. They can assess if there’s an underlying issue, such as anxiety or difficulty adjusting, and provide specialized support.

    By providing structure, emotional support, and collaboration with her family, you might help her better manage her feelings and avoid the disruptions that arise when she becomes overwhelmed.

    Do you think any of these approaches could be helpful for your classroom environment?

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